Back For Seconds: Men Need Sexual Liberation Too


Ev’Yan Whitney revisits a conversation she had with a sexually woke guy who goes by the name "Expressions Untold" where they talk about male sexuality and what men’s sexual liberation looks like.

Expressions Untold gets vulnerable about his own sexual liberation journey, sharing with us how he went from praying away his sexuality to embracing who he is as a sexual being, and he speaks very candidly about the ways toxic masculinity and the patriarchy keeps men from being sexually free.

What’s in this episode—

  • How he, Expressions Untold, came into doing nude photography and writing erotica (and how he manages to make his work not feel like mainstream, male gaze-y porn).

  • #masculinitysofragile and why so many men are emotionally disconnected (spoiler: toxic masculinity!).

  • The ways men are sexually repressed—some of which are very similar to the ways women and femmes face sexual repression.

  • And Expressions Untold’s personal sexual liberation journey—how he went from trying to pray his sexuality away to finally accepting himself as a sexual being.

We also talked about Instagram politics, how to ask your man for what you want sexually (without hurting his fragile feelings), where sexually “woke” men can be found, and why you should be a “too much” woman.


Press play to listen to our conversation. (Or listen on Apple Podcasts or Spotify.)

Some things mentioned in this episode:

You can connect with Expressions Untold via Instagram and book him for a shoot on his website,

Ev'Yan Whitney